Nollywood actress Laide Bakare’s recent disclosure regarding her parenting choices has ignited a flurry of reactions across social media platforms. In an interview with content creator Mr. Lilgaga, Bakare revealed that she introduced her daughter to clubbing and alcohol at the age of 17. She expressed a sense of satisfaction that her daughter would acknowledge her role in introducing her to nightlife and alcohol consumption.

“I took my daughter to the club for the first time at 17. And I like the fact that in her memoir, she would reference me as the person who introduced her to alcohol and clubbing,” Bakare stated during the interview.

This revelation, however, has been met with considerable criticism. Many social media users have voiced their concerns, arguing that introducing a minor to such activities is irresponsible. The reactions, primarily on X (formerly Twitter), reflect a spectrum of opinions, largely centered around the themes of parental responsibility and guidance.

User It_hafizski wrote, “Introducing a 17-year-old to alcohol and nightlife is reckless parenting, not cruise. At that age, guidance and discipline should come first, not clubbing.” This sentiment was echoed by Just_2undey, who opined, “Some of these people are not worth the pedestal the people place them on. All these coming from someone that calls herself a mother.” DamiTheOG added, “Many of those you admire are often poor role models as parents.” Shuluemp questioned, “Which kind of mother takes pride in introducing her 17-year-old to alcohol and clubbing?”

Conversely, some offered a different perspective. Sturbyrich suggested, “Low-key this thing normal, at least her daughter will be free to talk to her about anything. If she no carry her go club, she’ll still go by herself and might even do worse things.” Similarly, Brainpink wrote, “Make una leave her, that’s how she wants to train her girl. Because if you dey overprotect, sometimes she will still go to the club, drink alcohol and still smoke join, and you won’t notice. But sha, small small ooo.”

The controversy highlights the diverse range of perspectives on parenting styles and the delicate balance between guidance and freedom in adolescent development. Bakare’s approach, while defended by some as a means of fostering open communication, is largely viewed as a misstep in prioritizing youthful experiences over the responsibilities of parental guidance during formative years. The debate underscores the ongoing conversation about appropriate boundaries and the influence of parental figures in shaping young adults.