Lifestyle
8 Signs That Your Relationship Is Not Worth Your Time
Maintaining healthy relationships requires effort, communication, and dedication from both individuals involved. These elements serve as the foundation for every successful partnership. However, uncertainty and inefficiency can arise when one partner lacks commitment.
Below are eight important signs to observe if you are uncertain about your partner’s genuine interest or if there may be emotional manipulation at play:
1. Inadequate Communication
Poor communication is a clear sign of a lack of commitment. If your partner consistently avoids discussions about the future or the direction of the relationship, it may indicate a deficiency in long-term dedication.
2. Reluctance to Define the Relationship
A committed partner typically seeks to clarify the nature of the relationship to ensure mutual understanding. If your partner avoids conversations regarding exclusivity or commitment, this may suggest a lack of full engagement.
3. Unwillingness to Introduce You to Important People
Meeting each other’s friends and family plays a crucial role in any relationship. If your partner is hesitant to introduce you to significant individuals in his or her life, it may imply that a long-term future is not envisioned.
4. Inconsistent Behavior
Patterns of erratic behavior, such as being affectionate at one moment and distant the next, can indicate a lack of commitment.
5. Minimal Effort in Planning for the Future
A committed partner will actively include you in future plans. If your partner shows little interest in discussing potential futures or establishing shared goals, this might signal a lower level of commitment.
6. Interest Only When Convenient
If your partner engages with you primarily when it suits them and becomes unavailable without explanation, this may reflect a lack of prioritization and commitment to the relationship.
7. Limited Engagement in Your Life
A dedicated partner typically demonstrates a genuine interest in all aspects of your life. If your partner seldom inquires about your day, interests, or feelings, this may indicate a lack of depth in their interest.
8. Avoidance of Emotional Intimacy
Emotional intimacy is essential in a serious relationship. If your partner consistently avoids sharing thoughts, feelings, and vulnerabilities, it could suggest a lack of interest in developing a deeper connection.
A healthy relationship is built on open communication, emotional intimacy, and mutual commitment. If you identify consistent avoidance of relationship definitions, erratic behavior, or a lack of interest in your life and future, these may be clear indicators of insufficient commitment.
Recognising these signs can assist in evaluating whether your partner is truly invested or merely engaging in emotional manipulation.
Entertainment
‘My wife will kill me’ –Davido responded to a woman who requested him to follow her on Instagram.
During a recent stop on his 5ive Tour in America, Nigerian Afrobeat sensation Davido addressed a request from a female fan with a humorous, yet firm, response. The fan, clad in revealing attire, implored the artist to follow her on Instagram. Davido declined, stating that his wife, Chioma, would disapprove. “No, my wife will kill me,” he quipped, adding, “I can’t follow anyone, I only follow my wife,” eliciting laughter from the audience. This incident underscores the artist’s commitment to his marriage, which was formalized in a lavish Lagos ceremony in June 2024.
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Nigerian singer Ayra Starr has reached a new milestone, becoming the first African artist to receive a Latin Diamond certification from the Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA). This achievement is for her collaboration with Rvssian and Rauw Alejandro on the hit song “Santa,” which has surpassed 35 million streams. Starr joins Rema, whose song ‘Bubalu’ is certified Platinum, as the only African artists with RIAA Latin certifications. “Santa” has also achieved multiple Platinum certifications in Spain and Mexico, topping the charts in Spain and reaching No. 2 in Colombia, Ecuador, and Central America. This success marks a significant moment for African music on the global stage.
Entertainment
Nigerian Union in Denmark to Host 2025 Summer Picnic at Fælledparken, Copenhagen Denmark.
As the summer sun graces Copenhagen, the Nigerian Union in Denmark is gearing up for an unforgettable gathering to bring together Nigerians living in and around the city. On July 27th, 2025, from 2pm to 6pm, Fælledparken will be abuzz with laughter, camaraderie, and a joyous display of culture as the Union hosts its annual summer picnic.
Ambassador T. A. Elias Fatile, PHD, CDAai, the Head of Mission at the Embassy of Nigeria in Stockholm, Sweden, will attend the event. While the Queen Phinadon will serve as the MC at the Event. This well-anticipated event isn’t just about fun—it’s about weaving even stronger threads of connection amongst members of the Nigerian community in Denmark. We find it inspiring to see initiatives like this that go beyond mere socializing to focus on fostering unity, peace, and a continued sense of belonging so far from home. There’s a unique magic when familiar faces gather under the open sky, share stories, and celebrate with traditional warmth.
To foster a dynamic and engaged community for Nigerians in Denmark, They aim to: provide support to members facing challenges; encourage collaboration in social, economic, cultural, and political spheres between Nigeria and Denmark; and actively contribute to Nigeria’s development. Further aims and objectives are detailed in our constitution, accessible to members.
So, what’s on the agenda this year? For starters, there will be an energetic football competition—because, let’s be honest, nothing says “community” like a friendly match where everyone is a superstar, at least for a moment! If football’s not your thing, don’t worry: interactive games, the quirky and always amusing king game, dance sessions, and plenty more activities will keep spirits high and bring out hearty laughs from attendees of all ages.
And it wouldn’t be a true Nigerian get-together without music and dance! Picture a pop-up dance party on the green, with classic beats and contemporary hits bouncing through the park, inviting everyone to join in. For newcomers, these moments offer a gentle entry into the circle, and for longtime members, they provide the comfort of nostalgia.
As picnic baskets open, treats are shared, and new memories are created, the day promises not just entertainment but meaningful connections—some that may last a lifetime. Whether you’re bringing your family, friends, or just your good vibes, this is your invitation to celebrate, reconnect, and bask in the collective spirit of Nigerians in Denmark.
Mark your calendars for July 27th, gather your game face (and dancing shoes), and get ready to be part of something special in Fælledparken. We can almost hear the laughter already—and we wouldn’t want anyone to miss out on it!
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‘My wife will kill me’ –Davido responded to a woman who requested him to follow her on Instagram.
